FORGETTING THE DEAD.....

    Ever thought that a person who you adored the most, who cared for you, who remembered you, whom you can recognize just by seeing a glimpse....is forgotten by you forever more. You don't even remember their face, you can't even feel the warmth of their hands, you forgot their comforting touch, because they are DEAD.
   I fight with God for the same very reason that why can't I remember them, their face, their hands, their unforgettable words...but i got a simple and silent reply that 'If I didn't make you forget the, you'll never be able to move on with your life'..........
   Its true that we want to remember them, their memories, their words but our Lord knows the best for us...He knew if we couldn't forget them, then we might never be able to lead our life in the forward direction. We could never have overcome the trauma of their death. But, this also does not mean that we forgot them completely their memories are still with us but they are like 'on the top shelf covered with dust', they live with us with in those memories. Their guiding words are still with us. Those words, which help us to move on in life.
  Now i think that forgetting the dead is also a 'silent' gift of God. Truly he know the best for us....